Open Question: Good comapny to get a personal loan from?

April 29, 2010 by  
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Does anyone know of a good place to get a personal loan from? I see most banks dont do it- is there any “real” place online to apply for a personal loan? We are needing 5,000 to pay off an auto loan to make our payments cheaper monthly. We cannot refinance because the vehicle is wrecked, we are just trying to get our payments down.

Open Question: Ramadan – I need your help – I got a Marriage Proposal.?

April 29, 2010 by  
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Assalamualikum my brothers and sisters
I have got a Marriage proposal and I am a little confused.
First things first -
The girl is not religious;
Neither is her Dad.
Her father used to deal in Loans, banks and Interests and that made him RICH
(He is the richest man in our locality)
However he has now Quit Interest Business and bought many hotels and stuff like that
I was not allowed to see the girl yet, but my parents say she is beautiful.

Prophet (S) said Virtue is most important in marriage.
And I am quite sure she is not very virtuous (As her father is not much virtuous). May be not Immodest but not even Virtuous
But my parents (esplly dad) are insisting (NOT FORCING – JUST SOME WHAT INSISTING) to marry her as they think this is a good match
1. Her father is rich and has only ONE DAUGHTER
2. Her father said I can take care of his business when my dad said to him I have to finish my engineering before Marriage
3. He is my dad’s old buddy and also one of the richest chap in the city
4. Girl is not bad (in looks)
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Now I would have said NO (because ever since I was young, I craved for a pious girl to be my wife)

BUT THE DESIRE TO “GET MARRIED SOON” IS JUST CONFUSING ME.
I want to GET MARRIED SOON (To abstain from sins) :(
I do not desire WAITING …

This is really bothering me … Pious girls are very few and I am not getting one anytime soon (I don’t know why) :(

WHAT TO DOOOOOOOO
Should I just go with it and then try changing her after marriage?
Will that be possible?
Or will she be arrogant as she is the Only Child (I am also the only child of my parents)?
Should I wait more? I am 19. (We would surely marry later (after a year or two – But may just engage now)?
OR SHOULD I STILL WAIT FOR A pious girl?

Any advices I need real bad – I am also asking my Shiekhs but I also want you people’s advice.

Please forgive me if I was Lewd or “personal information exposing freak”
I asked this to you all because prophet (S) said
Whoever takes advice of Believers in his issues – He will feel confident in his tasks then.
(Sahih Hadith)

& Please: NO TROLLS or Mocking PLEASE
Ooh Istaqara I will be doing FOR SURE
also will make dua in Tahajjud

Just want your advices

And also sisters – I am sure 100% she is not religious :(
Not VERY IMMODEST ALSO
Just 80% Worldly
and 20% religious :(
My daddy said
Brother Hello Thank you so much for that Advice
That was short and simple :)
Thank you
But Mani is a Good sister

If she is not a believer then being kind to her may bring her close to Islam
And if she is a believer then we can not say anything.
I love you both Mani and hello :) May Allah reward you both and help you Always :)

Also the girl (First answerer) Thank you for answering – May Allah bless you :)
White horse Come Online

I need to chat and talk to you :( PLEASE

Open Question: trouble getting debt consolidation..?

April 28, 2010 by  
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I have $3500 on credit cards and soon to be $600 more. I got an offer from discover for a personal loan for debt consolidation. However,they require you make 25k a year or fulltme student. Im 23 but neither. I would consider lying,but the possibility of them fnding out worries me. Was tempting though. I tried with my bank but they’d require collateral such as my car,and full insurance which i cant afford and a fixed rate of 9.05%. I dont know if theres any other options to consider?

Open Question: Where can I get personal loan here in Abu Dhabi that only requires less that 3,000dhs. salary? Need it ASAP.?

April 28, 2010 by  
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Open Question: Where can I get personal loan that only reqiures less than 3,000 salary? Need it ASAP.?

April 28, 2010 by  
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Open Question: does anyone know of money lender who could lend me 2lacs for couple of months in mumbai.?

April 28, 2010 by  
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if anyone is a money lender do contact me. or if u know of some one then let me know. for banks i don’t qualify for personal loan, hence asking for private money lender. thanks.

Open Question: what to do about loan stress & depression?

April 28, 2010 by  
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i have a fairly large personal loan, im 21 years old with no career & no direction, the only thing i know for certain is i want to get out there & do something, be someone other then who i am not working rediculous jobs watching my prime years dissapear. I am 100% sure I have a pretty bad depression, I am stressing 24/7, dont eat properly, stopped my daily activities (going to the gym) because I physically dont have any motovation or energy at all anymore, I cant talk to anyone in person because I physically cant be bothered & dont know what to say because my brains so confused about life that nothing I say makes sense, im always angry at or about something even if its nothing, i’ve taken my anger out on innocent people to many times over the last few months, my partner is suffering the most because she pays for allot of stuff that i use to pay for & it kills me to know that im not being a good partner.. All i want is for all this to go away & to start fresh but i still have $26,000 to pay off of a loan that i took out when i was 18 years old, the last 12 months has been the worst year of my life & taking out the loan has destroyed my life. I know right now you are thinking ‘this guy needs help’ i’ve done so much thinking about it but i cant talk to anyone about this its to hard theres to many emotions going through my head at any one time & I dont have the confidence to open up & let it all out to a doctor or even family/friends i’m a very to myself kind of person, I need to somehow concur this myself but i dont even know where to start, 1 min i think ‘i’ve got to steal something to pay off my debts to make my life better’ the next min im thinking ‘just go bankrupt it’s the easiest way’, i hate the thought of a bank in control of my life, i wish they gave 18 year old people warnings of what a loan is & what it does to your lifestyle/what it can prevent you from achiving. is there anything i can do to get help other then talking to a professional therapist?

Open Question: What legal action can a bank take if person barrows unsecured personal loan and migrates to other country?

April 28, 2010 by  
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Open Question: Is it possible to get a $5,500 personal loan if I have no credit and no co-signer and am in college?

April 28, 2010 by  
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Open Question: which side of banking is easier to be at? corporate banking or personal banking?

April 28, 2010 by  
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I am offered two different roles by two different banks.

One is selling SME loans to businesses?

While the other is a personal banker selling products to consumer.

In a career dillemma..

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