Open Question: Army pay, bonus, screw up need help?

I enlisted in aug 09 and signed with a 20k enlistment bonus. out of ait in nov of 2010. i had been getting the run around for about five months, then they told me a had to take another class to be complete and be able to get it. so after taking this course for a few weeks, i called my sec sgt and told him nothing showed up in my mypay. he advised me to call the ua and get it sorted out. this bitch told me it wasnt her problem and hung up on me. so after calling a few sm’s and sfc’s to get some ideas of what to do, nothing still was done. i had driven pov there (almost 1500 miles) in my truck, and didnt have the funds to make it back. so after taking a personal loan for gas money, i get back to the unit, and they assure me everything is taken care of. i did recive pay for my training, which allowed me to pay off that loan, however i still have not recived the bonus, or the reimbursment for travel cost. im in the army reserves, and i moved very far away from my unit. so any idea of who to call to put a little fire under there ass and make them pay the money im owed? thank you

Open Question: where can i get a personal loan?

I need some cash asap i need a personal loan, if someone knows some place plis let me know

Open Question: How can I move out sooner?

I’m an undergrad living with my parents because my university is in the same city as my house.

I’m planning to get a bachelor’s degree of science (I’m in my first year) and since I might do a co-op degree (2 terms of work) it will take an extra year to complete. I plan to go to graduate school because it is highly unlikely for me to get a job with just this BSc alone. I can’t do summer courses for personal and financial reasons (plus I already have a student loan).

By the time I finish my degree AND grad school I will be about 28… is there any way I can move out sooner?!
Sorry about being vague lol
I haven’t decided on a degree but it’s probably going to be a biological sciences degree (leaning towards biotech, biochem, or microbio, but not 100% sure yet)

Open Question: Does anyone know a lender that will approve a personal loan with a credit score of 541?

I am currently on disability due to the birth of my first child and unfortunately disability is not covering all my expenses. I started tarnishing my credit at the age of 19 and at is still paying for it today 13 years later ugh! My credit score is 541 and I am currently paying on a auto loan that is current and kept in good standing. I need th loan asap so any input is greatly appreciated.

Open Question: My question is in regards to a personal loan.?

My question is in regards to a personal loan.

My mother was having a difficult time with a credit company that wanted her to pay a debt from over 15 years ago, she was scared by them stating they were going to take away her home. Long story short she decided her only method was to take out a personal loan from a married couple (Husband and wife) that specialized in giving out personal loans with outrageous rates. She took a 50 thousand dollar personal loan with 30% interest.

Recently the husband passed away and the wife failed to mention this to my mother for whatever reason, ever since then she has been asking for cash vice check payments. After looking over the loan docs the paperwork has both the husband and wife’s name on them but they are pretty simple documents Installment note and short form deed of trust and assignment of rents (individual).

I just wanted to know is this a legit loan? My mom has been paying for it for over 3 years now and its taken a toll on her. Any advice would help. Thank you!

Open Question: How do you apply for a personal loan?

how do you apply for a personal loan? and how does it exactly work?
its for an 18yr old who obviously doesnt have credit, how else could you establish credit or get a loan??

Open Question: 18 years old….no credit?

I’m 17 and when I turn 18 I want to take out a $10000 personal loan so I can get an apartment, stuff for the apartment, and a car. I literally have nothing, I’m just finally escaping a horrible living situation & two mentally unstable alcoholic parents. I have a stable job that pays around $1200 a month.
So my question is, how do I establish “good /exellent credit” within about six months so I can take out this loan? I’m currently living with my boyfriend and his mom wants us out as soon as we graduate. How is the best way to go about establishing good credit to take out a loan?

Voting Question: Can I get political asylum on the basis that this country is largely a bunch of man-eaters?

I feel persecuted by the medical, legal, psychological, religious, and educational systems in the United States–as they hash us to save face–and would like to seek asylum in a country with more social mobility. I’ve been told I have my parents’ problem, but that’s only because it’s a toxic relationship(thank you, Dear Abby); I am not the narcissist, and any fights that my physical or institutional parents have are not my fault. My claim is that I have been wrongfully diagnosed with mental illness too many times, because I didn’t make ritual property acquirements, real and abstract, at given times in life as a male, and I can’t afford housing to go to college(not included in federal loans). I know 50-year olds in this situation, particularly females, because the conditions were reversed in their day. But every next conclusion of the people in suits is based on the reaction to the previous diagnosis. (Problem-reaction-solution).

Every time I come across a woman in the above institutions(except female pastors, which I actually have somewhat of a preference for), I suddenly have no right to speak, and it’s all lip service about how nice they’re being to me, when the whole basis of the meeting is to find something wrong with me, and this something wrong is always completely imaginary. They always would like to see themselves as loving, when they are wasting my time continuing to insist that I be looked upon as different, and insisting that I change my belief because their authority compels me to believe they’re being nice. This is straight from Orwell’s 1984, straight Anglican-like political-religion.

I tell them to make an accusation if I’m guilty, but they tend to take personal offense to this, while my supposed problem is once again pre-justified by their authority. They more they try to be nice, the more they end up being spin doctors, making a 15 minute response to my every objection. This would be an abusive relationship, except you wouldn’t call it abuse because the recipient is a male. I don’t want any “rights” that other people decide are beneficial to me. I want to define my own rights reasonably, but the only way I could see this is if I owned the institution itself. I’m not greedy, I’m not selfish, but the Adam Smithian system compels me to seek what I don’t need, e.g. money/property, to be in compliance. I’m sick of wasting my time doing for myself what other people require of me to be a “good” person. I’m not ungrateful if I want something better, and I don’t have to feel guilty about the deep “love” that these torture industries have for me.

I hate these thought-police shrink-moms that are taking over American society and treat men like little children, or a trinket to wear and toss away at will. I want a country where they give short answers and make accusations instead of being dick-choppers behind our backs. I want a country where they stop clamping down more each time you ask for real resources, where they don’t think you’re a mass murderer for simply wanting to live your life and express your feelings, when you ARE being treated differently for reasons of privilege which they don’t care to open their eyes to. (Like tall people getting all the jobs).

I can’t get on Social Security and can’t get a car or housing assistance from welfare because my parents make too much, and stowed some away for me, so they can choose what I major in if I return to school. I don’t have enough work credits because schooling was everything instead of practical skills. I can’t sue my parents while I’m under their roof, nor can I sue the Treasury. I’m trying to start a business, and I’m finding that the state I’m in–Pennsylvania–is rated the worst by the ALEC survey. The local “Christian” community has brought up stricter denominations, or sub-denominations to guarantee that children within their own cultures make a certain amount of money or property at a given age. Inviting someone into a house with one’s family, nevertheless, is strongly discouraged, and the maximum per capita(e.g. one house per person, one car per person) is strongly emphasized.

I wish I didn’t have to be “Amish” to be treated like a man, and would like to be SOUGHT OUT for more intimate things, not simply WELCOMED to “Happy Christian Land.” A woman can marry into money, having the best pick, but a man simply gets counseling at “church” or from the shrink for not having enough to support himself(where it is not acceptable to be paid for in full by the respective “Christs” after age 18). If being homeless is what it takes to be considered un-selfish(there’s that paradigm shift again, always a greater evil to make the good look better), I’m ready to do it.

So, do you think my req
So, do you think my request for political asylum is legitimate? I’m looking for something like Sweden, Japan, or Denmark.

Repeat after me: I have a right to be “very, very pissed off”(Thank you, Chuck Palahniuk). No one has the right to tell me I’m happy when I’m miserable. No one has the right to tell me that the world is nice, when my experience is that the world “is shit”(Thank you, South Park creators). The rules apply to everyone else to benefit them, but “just not me.” I have to do different things to earn people’s trust like you can’t imagine, and people will break their trust with me as easy as you can’t imagine, and I do the SAME THING AS SOMEONE ELSE, but someone else is God for doing it, and is given the role of taking on my “pain” and trying to get me to pay money, essentially, for the pain I shouldn’t have for reacting to their oppressive system in the first place.

Open Question: Ellen I love your show, I try to never miss it. You and Porsha make the prettiest couple in the world.?

Ellen I’ve never try to ask anyone for help, but I’m in a bind. I am crying as I type this, please I hope you get to read this. How I have managed to get myself in this situation is beyond me. I have 5 brothers and 5 sisters and I really have no contact with them unless it’s the Holidays and I’m the one who usually makes the contact. Ellen my family are loved by me and it embarrasses me to ask for help. If you knew my childhood you’d understand. Currently I am unemployed and I have an Associate degree in Science, with a major in Medical Laboratory. I have cashed out my retirement, 401K and sold all my personal items that where worth anything. I’m not asking for a handout, I am asking for your help. I see how much you care about your fans when I watch your shows. I am recently divorced and it has hurt me bad. I have had to move at least 5 times in 2 years and now I am stuck in an area where there are no jobs. I am 40 years old and my recovery time is great, but unfortantually I have nothing left (I have my TV). What I need is help getting myself to an area where there are more jobs. I have applied all over etc. walmart, local resturants, and have thought about topless dancing. Ellen I am not asking for a hand out, it’s more a loan. I cannot accept anymore rejections from employers telling me you didn’t get the job. What I am to do I haven’t a clue!!! I came to North Carolina from West Virginig to be closer with my twin, but that didn’t prove to be the best thing for either of us. I miss her but we are too different and I honestly tried. We have lived entirely different lives, I gave it my best and my best was not good enough. Ellen I feel so lost and empty inside and I have no one to turn to. My bills are all late, my Landlord is getting tired of the late payments. I’ve gone to Social Services, Christian Ministries but you can only go every 6 months to get help. I an scared of what I am becoming, I thank God I have no children, but then again maybe I’d get more help if I did. I can only imagine the sad stories you recieve daily, and it’s so sad. I live with my little Yorkie and she is a God send. Her name is Emilee, AKA: MeMe, my sister gave her that nick name. I sometime wonder why I wake daily! I use to have goals now they are replaced with has beens. Why has this happen to me, I feel as if it is my own fault. I want to go back to school to futher my education, but due to the fact my taxes have not been filed, I can’t get any grants until I do. I have been married twice and I have been the primary money maker so to speak. All I want is apart of my old life back and that’s caring for the sick. They say laboratory finds causes leading to the cure. I miss it so!!!! I have meet so many sweet patients and I have seen many patients go to Heaven. I keep saying all I want for Christmas is another chance but I am in the wrong area and there are no jobs here. I am alone here and I have one friend, if not for him I’d be homeless. I hate how my life is now, Ellen sometimes I think bad thoughts and it scares me so. I am a proud woman and all I need is a little help. I don’t know if I am making sense but I’m trying. I am a lost soul in a big world and am so lonely. If you read this I’d love for you to help me just a little and I’d love for my family to accept me. Especially my twin sister, who has said mean horrible thing about me and they hurt me so. I guess I need to earse the messages she left but I can’t for some odd reason. I am trying my hardest and am getting no where. If I take 2 steps forward, I get knock back 10. This is hard for me and I’d love to hear for you my cell number is 1-704-530-0660. I pray this makes sense to whom ever reads it, if not a call will help me explain better. Thank you for your time and please ask your fans to pray for a change in my life. Ellen I am scared and hope daily for a change but it never happens. Please don’t feel sorry for me, that’s not what this about. It’s about a friend helping a friend and you are a friend!!!! God Bless You and everyone else who having a hard time making it in life. Hopefully with God’s help changes will come my way. You are so Blessed and please remember that if your ever down. You do good because you are good. Excuse my typing…. Thank you, Bettie Fletcher

Open Question: Personal Loan and Car as Collateral?

im purchasing a car and i need a down payment can someone help me with a down payment and use the car for collateral

if anyone has any ideas or links they can send me to help i would greatly appreciate it. please post trusted sites that are too the point, no scams please

thank you

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